This month marks five years of this little crew, of my being a Mum of three but I’m conscious that my Siblings posts feel a little repetitive – their relationships are fairly steady and fairly typical at the moment; they love each other, they bicker. That’s about it.
This month I’m just sharing gorgeous photos rather than trying to find new ways to say the same thing . . .
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Heck I’ve been a bit slack with my Siblings posts recently – I don’t know how I managed to miss September’s and I very nearly missed this one too, I just happened to notice the date!
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So I may have missed our Siblings post in July – we were in Tenerife and I forgot to schedule it ahead of time! Whoops.
It’s now the middle of the fourth week of the summer holidays, and in fact our fifth week off school together as we snuck out for the last few days of term to take our trip to Holiday Village Tenerife. Much as we’re all loving the more relaxed pace and some quality time together, I think it’s fair to say that the cracks are starting to show! There’s a whole lot more bickering from the kids and a whole lot less patience from me. As is always the case, I find they all get along much better when we’re out and about but I learned my lesson from last year that scheduling too much stuff in doesn’t really work either! This time round we’ve had a more balanced pace interspersing our adventures with days at home to relax. We’ve also had a couple of days with childcare dotted around here and there both for my sanity and so I can keep on top of my work – but in all honesty I think it does them good to have the odd day apart too! Read More »
I almost forgot about this month’s Siblings post! Luckily I’d actually been really organised and sorted my photos out at the end of April when Mum & I took the kids and her pup Tilly to explore our local country park. Ridiculously, despite having lived here for almost a decade, I’d never actually been before. We had such a lovely walk though and there was so much to see that I’m sure we will be returning before long!
The last month has been super busy for us with preparing for my best friend’s wedding which took place this Saturday (hopefully I’ll be able to share some photos in a post for you later but for now there is one over on instagram of all of us in our wedding finery). Dave was away on the Stag Do for a very long weekend (can you even call five nights a weekend?), we had dress fittings, hair appointments, and a busy bank holiday all slotted into our normal day to day lives and now, looking back, the last month has absolutely flown! I’d like to tell you things will slow down now but they won’t, we have just a couple of free weekends between now and September – but thankfully they are packed with festivals, camping trips, family parties and long bike rides (for Dave at least)
Mostly I would say that our little team are getting on pretty well at the moment – the bickering has calmed down which I think is mainly as they’re so busy! We’re all loving being able to get outside a bit more – picnics in the park, playing in the forest and of course enjoying the odd ice cream or two! We go on holiday in a couple of weeks and we’re all starting to get pretty excited about our adventure!
As I write this month’s Siblings post, we are nearing the end of what has felt like the longest Easter holiday ever. I think with Easter weekend itself being right at the start of the holidays and the fact we had Dave off with us for a week, the holidays have lingered on beautifully, it really does feel like we’ve been off for such a long time. I’d like to tell you that we’re all well rested and ready to go back but after a lot of late nights this week and some lazy lie ins, I fear Monday morning might be something of a challenge for us all.
For the most part my little team have got on pretty well over the last month – we’ve had some lovely family time, both adventures and more lazy days at home. The three of them have invented more imaginary games and scenarios than you can shake a stick at – and mostly I love them but I must admit that the voices that go along with this pretend play grate on me after a while and I have to send them upstairs to carry on their game! There has been a little bickering and some frayed tempers but mainly just love – I caught Chloe and Amy snuggled up on the sofa together watching tv yesterday morning, mirror images of one another and my heart melted.
I think we’re all ready for the break that school will bring – Chloe and Amy have both said they are looking forward to seeing their friends again and I think they need a break from one another really.
Having just come home from a very cold, wet and blustery school run, I’m struggling to get my head around the fact that it’s actually the middle of March. A picture popped up on my facebook memories this week of a tree filled with blossom near our house . . . that tree is definitely not filled with blossom this week! Where is the sunshine?
I rather feel that my March Siblings photos should be filled with daffodils and tulips and all things spring, when in reality the only photos I have of all three children together this month were taken on their very first snow day. We had ventured out with the sledge to collect Ben’s welly (yes singular) that he had managed to leave at childcare the night before.
After an intentionally quiet start to the year, life has kicked up a gear as we moved into March – we’re now hurtling headlong into summer with weekends packed full of birthdays, anniversaries and prep for my best friend’s wedding (which is even more exciting now that the kids know they have special roles to play!)
Being so busy and out of the house more means there’s generally less time for bickering. All three kids are getting on really well at the moment and their favourite thing to do is disappear upstairs to play “the game”. I have no idea what this game entails but I love hearing snippets of their discussions about what will happen next in their game. Seeing them play imaginatively together is a joy. (And I love that it seems to happen upstairs too as it’s quieter!!)
LEGO has also been a unifying force over the last month – although Ben has had a heavy LEGO addiction for the past four years, the girls are only just starting to see the appeal, particularly now that Amy can join in too. On a number of occasions I’ve found them playing LEGO on Amy’s bedroom floor together.
I’m really looking forward to the Easter holidays now – particularly as Dave has a week off with us giving us plenty of scope for adventures!
I’m so pleased to say that it’s the middle of February and that we have survived the longest, most miserable part of the year intact! Typically for us the start of the year is intentionally very quiet, we plan very little in the way of adventures and essentially hibernate for a few weeks – this means lots of rest time for Ben, Chloe and Amy at home whilst Dave and I tend to try and get stuff done around the house. Last year this meant rearranging the dining room to create an office space for me to work, this year it has been more about odd bits of jobs like painting or making some new shelves. We’ve got quite a big list of things we’d like to try and get done in the house this year, which to be honest is no different to usual, we just need to save up and get on with working our way down the list.
Of course this rest time is much needed for all of us, but does mean the kids can get a bit fed up of being in each other’s pockets and there’s definitely been times where I’ve had to send them to their rooms to have some time on their own just to stop them bickering!
Ben and Chloe are much closer again at the moment, enjoying spending time playing on the Xbox together which Amy really isn’t all that bothered about at the moment and as such she tends to feel a bit left out. I have often worried that having three children would mean that one would be left out and I think that’s happening more and more, but luckily it’s not the same one each time – the girls play dress up together, the big two play Xbox, Ben and Amy play rough and tumble – they all have different things to offer each other.
As they get older, there is definitely more jostling to assert authority – Amy is no longer happy to just go along with what the other two want, Ben is determined to be the leader, Chloe just wants to please everyone.
January brings with it not only the first Siblings post of the year, but the start of our fourth year of Siblings posts. We’ve missed the odd long along the way but for the most part I now have three years of monthly photos of my little team – and without this regular monthly prompt I can safely say there would be times where that didn’t happen! Particularly when I first started concentrating on trying to take my Siblings photos it was often quite difficult to get them all in the same photo and looking the same way, now they tend to just get on with it knowing that I’ll leave them alone if they do it quickly!
The Christmas holidays were survived and we’re now back into the swing of things at school. I must admit I’d expected a whole world of bickering over the festive period but it actually wasn’t bad. For the most part the three of them got on really well and played nicely together. That said, by the time we got to the last day of the holidays I think they were ready to go back.
Ben and Chloe seem to have settled into a much nicer relationship with each other again, they’ve been happier to play with each other and are often found snuggled up on the sofa together – though if you asked them Chloe would tell you that Ben hates her. Ben and Amy adore each other and when he’s in the mood he’s super caring and the best possible big brother; giving piggy backs, fastening her coat or holding her hand but then there are times where she drives him mad and he shouts at her – which usually ends up with him getting into trouble. I expect this will be a continuing theme over the coming months if I’m honest!
Last month, for one reason or another, I missed my Siblings post. I’d actually planned a specific time to take photos for the post and had mentally written it – but then despite taking loads of photos on that particularly day out, I didn’t have a single one of the kids together. Before I knew it the moment had passed and I’d missed it completely. This month I’ve ended up using photos you’ve seen before – ones I’d taken specifically for campaigns I’m working on but which actually fit the bill quite nicely. At very end of October we had a lovely walk in the woods with my mum and sister (once Ben had given his head a wobble and stopped sulking) and it was nice to be outside with my camera and able to take photos in daylight – I do find this time of year so challenging for photography, all the more so when the kids are at school and our opportunities for daylight are limited!
After writing back in September that I was worried Chloe was feeling a little left out, things seem to have settled again and she’s back to having the best of both worlds – she can be the big sister and mother Amy, bossing her about in their role play or she can be the little sister and play rough and tumble with Ben.
The first thing Amy does in the morning, after checking that it’s ok to get out of bed, is go in to her siblings to see if they are awake. Ben is almost always awake, Chloe not so much. Luckily she’s not too bothered by being woken up but I must admit I’d rather she was able to take full advantage of the opportunity to sleep as she can be a right grump when she’s tired. (Yes, she gets that from me!)
There are definitely times that Ben gets fed up with the girls and takes his role of being the eldest all too seriously, telling them off and trying to make them do things his way. He gets into quite a lot of trouble for shouting at them and bossing them about – I’m sure he thinks he has some sort of divine right to expect them to behave the way he wants them too!
My little team really enjoyed their half term together – we had a fairly relaxed time visiting friends or going to the cinema before the kids went to Nana’s for a long weekend. Thankfully they seem to have slipped back into their school routine fairly easily and by the time I write my next Siblings update we’ll be in the full throes of Christmas prep and looking forward to the end of term! I can’t wait!
Unusually it actually feels like ages since I wrote my last Siblings post . . . so much so that I actually had to check that I hadn’t missed July out completely!
We’ve done so much since I published my last Sibling update – celebrated both Ben and Chloe’s birthday, multiple camping trips, a road trip to Dover – it feel like we haven’t stopped if I’m honest.
As is to be expected for a long summer holiday, it’s fair to say there has been plenty of bickering and squabbling. Mostly about inane rubbish like what to watch on TV, what to see at the cinema or whether to have an ice cream or a hot chocolate for a treat. I’m quite sure that sometimes when I give them a choice about something, one of them purposely plumps for the opposite option to their sibling just to make life difficult. It makes me not want to give them a choice about anything half the time!
In fairness they’re all getting on really well – they’ve been great company for each other whilst we’ve been out on our various adventures, always looking out for each other and playing together. The difficulty comes when we spend too much time at home and everyone loses their patience!
By the time I write my next Siblings post, all three children will be in school together for the first time – Chloe and Amy at the Infant site and Ben over at the Juniors. Although Ben and and Amy are relatively close together in age, they won’t actually attend primary school together as by the time Amy moves to the Juniors, Ben will have gone to Secondary – which makes me feel a bit sad if I’m honest!
This month’s photos were taken on our trip to Dover – we struck lucky with the weather and managed a day at the seaside!